Everyone loves to feel appreciated. It makes people feel valued and raises their mood. We all have busy lives but that does not mean we should not take the time to appreciate the people in our lives. Asides saying thank you, there are a million ways to show someone you love them. Here are a few simple ways to show your loved ones you appreciate them.
Appreciate people verbally
Words go a long way to show how much you care about someone. By sincerely saying telling a person how much they mean to you, you lighten their mood and yours for the entire day. Find simple, yet specific phrases to tell someone you care for. Never hesitate to give out compliments. Not only for people’s appearance, but for their personality.
Send a gift
Don’t wait for a birthday before you send a gift to a friend to show your love. It doesn’t have to be expensive, but the thought behind it that matters. It might be something you noticed they need, or just something you know would crack them up. Always make sure the people in your life know you love them.
Pay attention
When you spend time with friends, make sure you pay attention to them. Don’t be distracted by your phone or surroundings. Not only is it rude, but it can cause misunderstanding. Listen actively to what the other person says to you, and remember small details.
Make physical contact
Physical contact also makes people feel appreciated and deepens connection to people. A hug, holding hands or a pat on the back can make people feel understood and loved. Make sure that the other person is comfortable with you making physical contact and don’t force it.
Be there for people
Always try to show up for special events for the people you care about. This could be a birthday, graduation, or wedding. Your presence alone shows how much you love them. Show up for friends when they are going through a rough patch and offer to lend a hand.
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